5/28/2023 0 Comments Beta orbiter![]() ![]() If she really was getting more physical and flirtatious, that's her way of escalating. No, just continue escalating, no need to say anything. Recently she starts to get more and more physical and flirtatious She's down and we go out as wingmenĮstablished this fact? She verbally said "i'll be your wingman."? Good sign I'd say if so, if not sounds kind of meh. She's cool, so I figure we can be friends anyway. Get other women, have a good time with your buddies, etc. Acknowledge she's there, but you have better things to do tn. I wouldn't have made contact until she did going forward.Īt a party later I make a drunken move that she rejects. Something just might have thrown her off. Make out for a bit longer but she's clearly uncomfortable and leaves. No matter how many times she says Yes with her mouth, if she says No with her body, that’s the real answer. This is the best way to ferret out her words from her actions. It is possible she’ll come over to your place and not hook up with you, but if that happens the next step is still the same: Cut off contact with her. If not, she will use every excuse she can to not go over your place.Īnd if she refuses to come over your place, then you have your answer. The idea here is that you refuse to go out with her in public where sex can’t happen. “Stop by my place with a bottle of wine.” The next time she wants to hang out with you text her: ![]() So here’s what you do to ensure you never become an orbiter again. She’ll talk with you in different ways, meet up with you, confide in you and make you feel like you’re her boyfriend-except for the sex of course. She texts you flirty, friendly messages as if she likes you. That gives her full reign when you escalate in public for her to say, “Not here!”Īnd then, when it’s time to go back to your place or hers somehow she’s feeling tired, sick, has to be up early or is on her period.Īnd then the next day she starts with the breadcrumbs. They’ll avoid hanging out with you in a place where sex could happen-namely your place or hers. The problem is that women are crafty motherfuckers. Always be physically moving on to the next step. The simple way to never become an orbiter is to ESCALATE. times you hang out with her, for lack of a better term) that will decide whether you become her lover or her beta orbiter. Many times in her mind she hasn’t decided yet. The first time you go out with a girl, it is almost impossible to distinguish whether you’re an orbiter to her or a potential love interest. You’re stuck in friend-zone and the likelihood of feeling obsessed with this girl grows by the day. You keep investing in her, spending time with her, spending money on her, thinking about her, etc. You are stuck in a position close enough to a girl so that she gets the validation and company she wants while stringing you along with the prospect of sex. There are few things worse than being an orbiter. ![]()
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